Another golden rule

The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others. - Sonya Friedman

It's easy to beat yourself up when you're between jobs. When you go through a rough patch and your confidence wanes, remember to talk to yourself gently, as you would your very best friend if they were having your experience.

If you must engage in negativity, set an egg timer for 10 minutes. Then wallow in self-pity or worry to your heart's content. When the timer goes off, your opportunity to be negative is over for the day. Get back to work being optimistic and working hard to make your hopes come true.